The tedious routine of modern life has taken away the precious time that many couples should spend together. Not to mention, it has also deprived them of the quality moments that they need to be intimate with each other.

If you are one of these couples, remember that the passion and intimacy you share with your partner should be reignited from time to time if you want your relationship to stay strong. With that in mind, here are some kinky challenges that you should try together at least once in your life:

1. Going to a Strip Club

These days, spending time with your partner at strip clubs has become widely acceptable. These places offer couples with many types of entertainment that will enkindle your sexual desires.

For example, you would be taken to a private room where you and your partner can enjoy a special performance by one of the club’s beautiful women or even watch your partner receive a lap dance. Contrary to common belief, going to these clubs will not ruin your night together, but will actually make it sexier!

2. Having Sex in a Public Space

When it comes to sex, the world is your oyster! From your backyard to a store’s dressing room, you can get it on with your partner and make your fantasies a reality.

However, you should be smart about this act and carefully choose a place where you will not get caught easily. As this can be the most exciting thing you have ever done in your life, it comes with a high-risk level that can turn naughty into a disaster!

Experience the thrill of being caught getting it on but do not get caught for real.

3. Using Food in Foreplay

To boost the excitement during foreplay, you can add in some “yum!” to the act by using food. Actually, you have a lot of options that you can easily get from your own kitchen from fruits to creams, such as grapes, strawberries, cherries, chocolate fudge, honey, maple syrup, and whipped cream.

What’s great about using food, especially whipped cream and chocolate syrup, is that licking both the food and the mess that comes with it is twice the fun

4. Taking a Sensual Bath

Aside from showering together, take a sensual bath with lighted candles and some wine by the tub. To make it more romantic, you can play some of your favourite music in the background. With everything set, relax and take all the time you need to have a fun erotic experience.

5. Watching Porn

Despite the dubious claims stating that watching porn can ruin your relationship, it can actually do wonders for your sex life under the right mindset and circumstance. In fact, you can capitalise on it to share with each other what you would like to experience while having sex. What’s more, you do not have to go out or online for a copy “Kama Sutra” just to learn those amazing positions!

Of course, if you both decide to take sex into tantric levels, getting a copy of the Kama Sutra and a tantric chair will be worth the trouble.

6. Bondage

While this may sound complicated to you, you can actually make it simpler. For a start, it will be enough to use a blindfold and something in your closet that can bind your partner’s hands. But if you are looking for a more adventurous experience, you should buy latex and fetish products from an adult shop, such as handcuffs and straps.

7. Dry Humping

Oh the memories… when just rubbing up on someone and making out for hours were enough to give you that needed sexual gratification. While you might think that dry humping only applies to the young and single, it is actually a technique used by couples to heat things up in bed. Not only that it feels good, but the teasing feeling will also make you want and crave for more.

8. Erotic Writing

This is a great way to communicate with your partner in a sensual way, especially when you are not together for the time being. What do you think will they have if they find an erotic love letter from you? Well, you can definitely expect something fun or even wild when they get home, if you know what I mean!

9. Naked Day

While there is a World Naked Day, you can schedule another one for you and your partner’s enjoyment. You can pick any day of the week and make it your own naked day at home. During this time, you must do every chore naked. You will never know what the sexiness can lead to.

10. Creating a Sex Tape

Nothing could be kinkier than watching yourselves having sex on video. So, the next time you feel like getting down and dirty, take the time to film it. Not only will this make the moment hotter, but will also create something that will turn you on sometime later.

“No flame burns forever”, they say?

Well, this is not necessarily true for love and sex.

With some creative and kinky ideas, you will surely be able to maintain or even boost intimacy with your partner. So, what are you waiting for? Explore your sensuality together with some kinky ideas and find out how crazy you can really be in keeping the spark alive in your sex life!