Even with long-term relationships, the flame of romance would tend to die down. Work, stress, and raising a family may create a yawning gap between couples. Priorities change, and intimacy gets pushed back further down the line.
However, this does not mean that your romantic connection with your partner should wear down. How then should you make things blazing again?
What you are about to find out now are a few sexy steps to bring back the heat in the bedroom. From the usual raunchy strip teasing to the sensual massage, you can do many things to reignite the spark between you and your partner. Set that fiery chemistry ablaze once more.
1. Heighten Anticipation
When was the last time you talked dirty with your spouse? Not the rude, crass language, but a teasingly good one. The kind of talking that sends tickles to your funny bones and then tickles something else.
If you haven’t for a long time, do it now. Set the anticipation by sending text messages or posting coded post-it’s on the wall – you know, just to bring a little bit of mystery. This also works well if you already have children playing around. You do not want them to read your sexy notes, right?
2. Set a Sexy Atmosphere
Now that you have heightened anticipation, you can now begin with setting up an erotic scene in the bedroom. Candle lights are common, but you can also use blinking illuminations for your lighting choice. However, if you want the room to be dim, this is fine too. Just remember what you are trying to achieve here.
Simulate a strip club perhaps, or simply line the bed with sweet-smelling rose petals. It depends on what you think may make it sexy.
3. Bring Out the Aroma
Probably, you both are just so tired from all the workload during the day. If you want to release the tension, a sensual massage is the best thing for you to do.
Take out the aromatic oils and begin loosening tight muscles. Accordingly, scents like chamomile and lavender are good choices as these have therapeutic properties that relieve stress, resulting in a good sense of relaxation not just for your partner but also for you.
Furthermore, you can use this time to tease your partner with kisses and touching. Do not go into action yet. You’re just starting to get excited.
4. Let Fantasies Come Alive
If you want romance to come alive, let the fantasies do as well. There is nothing more fulfilling in a relationship than having to realize your partner’s sensual imaginations.
Stripper fantasies, anyone? If your partner dreams of strip clubs, then you are in for a challenge. Why not drop by at a local strip club for a lesson on the art of strip teasing? You can learn a thing or two about sensual dancing.
Soon enough, you will be slaying those killer heels for a strip show in your own bedroom.
5. Prepare Something New
Do not heat things up immediately! The sexual tension is probably very high now, but spicing up the relationship is all about building that up.
Breakout from the old routine, and throw in some sex toys during foreplay. Rings, dildos, and much more are helpful in pleasuring your partner’s erogenous parts. On the other hand (no pun intended), you can wear a strap-on for an otherworldly experience. Who knows? Your lover might even like it.
But do not forget to use water-based lubricants. You do not want to end up hurting your spouse.
With these 5 easy suggestions, you will be surprised how this can change your boring sex life to a blazingly pleasurable encounter. For sure, both of you will not get over the experience and would probably ask for more. So let the spice of life heat up your bedroom now!