When you and your partner/lover/significant other/f*ck buddy have been together for quite a while, eventually, the fire could fizzle out and make bedroom sessions boring. This is normal, especially when you’ve been together for many months. But don’t worry. There’s still hope for your intimacy and your sex life.
Adding New Things into the Mix
Sometimes, all it takes is for you to introduce new sexual positions and/or marital aids into the mix to rekindle the fire in your romance. Take a look at some of the most effective tips to help boost your sexual intimacy.
Seduction is the name of the game.
Wearing something seductive doesn’t only set the right mood for a steaming hot romp but will also excite your partner. Most definitely. For women, there is sexy lingerie you can buy online to seduce your man. You can also go into roleplaying and wear kinky costumes to make you and your partner lust for each other.
Let the experts teach you.
Watching porn can be a fun thing to do with your significant other. You’ll be surprised at how much you can learn from adult films. Be sure to discuss with your beau which positions you can and cannot do.
If you’re the shy type, there’s another sure-fire way to learn the art of seduction. Visit strip clubs with your lover and take note on how strippers seduce their customers. That way, you can role-play as a dancer at home and arouse your man.
Lube it up.
When you’re both trying too much to reach orgasm, sometimes, it can put pressure on both of you and, to make matters worse, can make the experience uncomfortable. This could lead to your genitals getting dried up. To avoid hurting yourselves, use lubrication. By doing so, you’re intensifying pleasure and stimulation.
Introduce marital aids in bed.
Men may be intimidated with the idea of using adult toys. Some are offended because they feel that they are inadequate. Women can also be shy in suggesting that they use such aids in bed for fear of embarrassing themselves or their partners. But if you want to take your sex life to a whole new level, sometimes, these gadgets can make a whole world of difference in the pleasure zone.
If you want to try using pleasure toys, it’s best that you make it clear to your partner that it’s not about them. Don’t make it sound like your sex life is lacking or that your partner is not enough. Explain as gently and as open-mindedly as possible why you think a vibrator or other aids can make your love life more exhilarating. That way, your partner won’t misunderstood you or get offended.
Touch more, kiss more.
Touch can be so powerful. The more you become intimate with each other without having actual sex the more you’ll be aroused and lust for each other. This is especially useful for those who feel that sexual intimacy has become a chore or a routine. This is natural for long-term relationships.
Experts say that the intensity of kissing and touching can eventually get lost, especially when both parties have become complacent with each other. By touching and kissing more often, you’ll experience the pleasure of reconnecting with each other, which could result in burning the fire in your romance again.
Road to Sexual Bliss
It’s natural for long-term relationships to get sour at some point, especially when it comes to their sex life. But you don’t have to give up easily. Just follow the tips mentioned and you’ll be on your way to sexual bliss.